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DOC TEACHES IN THE SYSTEM THAT THERE ARE A LOT OF GOOD WOMEN OUT THERE - WOMEN THAT TRY TO INTIMIDATE YOU DO NOT FALL INTO THIS CATEGORY...READ ON...
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Dear Doc Love,
I’m Preston. I’m 33 and I’m a fitness trainer at an upscale gym in Manhattan. I don’t seem to have any trouble meeting women I’m attracted to. Sometimes I actually have more women coming onto me than I can deal with. I know it sounds like I’m bragging but it’s true. The problem is that I seem to keep winding up with girls who give me a hard time.
For instance, I’ve been spending time with this one girl named Becky. She’s about two inches taller than I am (I’m 5’10”) and she’s drop dead gorgeous. Of course she’s a model and an aspiring actress. We’ve been out twice now, and I’m really attracted to her.
So yesterday we were taking a nice walk through Central Park, enjoying the day, when she starts asking me all these intense questions about my past relationships and insists that I explain why I’ve never been married. She was so intense. I felt like no matter what I said, it wouldn’t be what she wanted to hear.
Then she goes on a rant about how all men are dishonest and cheat and use women in one way or another. And then she says: ”So Preston, do you use women?” I mean she was acting like a cop from internal affairs who knew that I was guilty and was insisting that I admit it.
The rest of the time we were together yesterday, she was totally cool and we had fun. But I can tell she’s going to come on heavy again. If there’s a way to get her to lighten up I’d like to know, because she has a lot of other nice qualities and she’s exactly my type physically. Any suggestions Doc?
Preston – who wants to know how to handle all this
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Hi Preston,
She’s not the problem. You’re the problem. You’ve got all these beautiful women coming onto you. Great! But what’s up with you that you only choose ones who hassle you? Why don’t you hang out with one who doesn’t bust your chops? I mean, why be with a demanding, high maintenance woman when there are plenty of sweet ones out there? Since you’ve got so many to choose from, pick a winner instead of a whiner. As my cousin Fast Eddie Love says: “Stay away from dogs that growl and people who growl.”
Remember, the more beautiful the woman, the more spoiled and demanding she tends to be.
She’s says that all men are users and that you’re guilty until proven innocent. Why would you want to be with someone who has a chip on her shoulder? It’s a big Red Flag. If this is how she behaves on the second date, can you imagine the grillings you’ll be getting from her after you’ve been married to her for a year?
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And I’ll tell you something else Preston. If you started ragging on women the way Becky has on men, she’d be telling all her girlfriends what a creep you were. Somehow women feel that it is completely legitimate to label the male gender, as commitment phobic, terrified of true intimacy.
If Becky weren’t someone you were super attracted to, you would have already gotten rid of her, Preston. Her beauty mesmerizes you and you are not thinking clearly. One of the worst things you can do is get involved with a woman with a bad attitude. Unfortunately, too many guys will put up with all kinds of abuse, just because the girl is gorgeous to them. It’s dis-empowering to do that. Guys, you have to learn to not be willing to do anything for you know what. Just keep in mind that a girl who rates a 10 will sink to a 1 after she’s nagged and badgered you for two months.
Preston, this girl is not going to stop doing what she does. And you’re not going to change her. So move on to a groovier scenario.
Remember guys - the intelligent woman with high interest and a good attitude says to herself - “I’ll find out all the things I want to know about this guy’s character, over time. No need to be negative and demanding, it’s un-feminine and ungraceful.“ So pick a sweetheart instead of a interrogator.
