Dear Damona: Dating Groove & Twin Flame’s Twin

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It’s February, and love is in the air! But before you start stress-scrolling past all those heart-shaped decorations and candy displays, take a deep breath. Around here, we celebrate love in all its beautiful forms, whether that’s self-love, family bonds, friendship, or yes, even romance.

This week’s Dear Damona episode covers everything from finding love after a 30-year marriage (hello, hot Tinder date in Vienna!) to navigating workplace crushes when there are two potential connections. 

We’re tackling real questions about handling singles mixer dynamics, balancing dating with single parenthood, and even exploring what happens when twin bonds impact romantic relationships. 

So grab your favorite chocolate (because let’s face it, it’s way better than those chalky candy hearts), and settle in for some authentic conversation about finding connection in today’s dating landscape.

(00:25) Dear Damona

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Finding Your Groove After Thirty Years of “I Do” (02:18) 

After three decades of marriage, one listener is rediscovering herself through dating apps – and finding unexpected joy in a Viennese romance. 

As she puts it, “I’m not sure who or what was on my side, but I met a smoking hot 40-year-old guy on Tinder and two days with him made up for everything.” But now she’s wondering: how can she date authentically when she’s not even sure what she’s looking for?

When Two Workplace Connections Make Your Heart Race (09:40)

One listener’s dating groove hit an unexpected twist with two potential connections at work: one her age, one ten years younger.

After a playful arcade date with the younger colleague, she’s questioning if she should explore either connection. As Damona notes, “Dating people at work can be messy. If this is not a career job for you, I say go for it.”

When “Hi” Gets You Goodbye (16:28)

After relocating to a new city, one singles mixer attendee discovers that real-life dating might be taking cues from dating apps – and not in a good way. 

“It’s like people are swiping in real life now,” he shares. “No one takes the time to get to know me before judging what they see.” Is there still hope for those seeking deeper connections in our snap-judgment world?

Making Space for Love While Juggling Life (23:55)

When well-meaning friends suggest putting dating on hold during a busy season of life, one listener pushes back: “That advice makes me cry. I don’t want to stop trying. I’m ready to not be alone.” 

Can you pursue partnership while balancing the demands of single parenthood and family caregiving?

When Twin Bonds Test Relationship Boundaries (34:08)

After investing four years in her relationship, one woman faces a difficult reality about her twin partner. 

Despite owning a house with his brother and living together for decades, he kept promising “if it was the right woman” things would change. “It was one of the most heartbreaking situations I’ve been in,” she shares, discovering that some bonds – especially between twins – might be unbreakable.

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